Over the course of three days, my father had sent me a total of 56 text messages. I did no respond to one of them. As I said before, I did not want to fuel his fire even more. After the three days, the text messages stopped and I thought it was over. Boy, was I wrong!
The first I had heard from my father, he said I had some junk mail, he wanted to know if he should send it over or if he could rip it up. I still did not respond.
A week later, he said “your girl has some mail over here” he said he would try to remember to send it within the next two days. I did not respond, yet we were unpleasantly unsurprised that my father had written “THANK GOD SHE DOES NOT LIVE HERE ANYMORE” on the envelope he sent back in the mail.
He wanted us to drop the keys to the house off to him, the text message read “You have no reason, to come around my house anymore. You and the girl. I have tried to talk to you but you don’t respond. So just drop the keys in the mailbox at your pleasure”. However, we did not want to go over there by any means, so we just threw the key away. I figured he was afraid we would do something to him or the house, but I did not have any such intentions of doing so, so I just kept ignoring what he sent to me.
My father went back and forth with the “compliments” offering what he called his “fatherly advice” and then turned right back around to cut me down. He tried and tried to say the worst things to be from calling me names like “Sissy Boy” and other words and telling me to be my own man by “telling the girl to do the laundry, and cooking and washing the dishes!”.
He made it pretty clear that he thought the plan I had for my life was a big waste. He also made it pretty clear that he did not like my girlfriend and was adament that she is bringing me down. I still did not respond.